When I was invited to speak at the PIARC (World Road Association) Winter Road Congress’ Gender Inclusion and Diversity Reception, and later to appear on a podcast for the National Asphalt Pavement Association in the US – my first reaction was not confidence. It was doubt.
At the time, I had been working in the highways and infrastructure sector for 3 years, in my role as Innovation Business Partner, focusing on innovation and decarbonisation in Highways. I am still early in my career, and I do not come from a traditional engineering background. Yet suddenly, I found myself contributing to conversations alongside women whose careers span decades – senior engineers, technical specialists and industry leaders who have shaped policy, delivered nationally significant programmes, and built their careers in a sector where female representation was once far rarer than it is today.
Who was I to share a stage with women whose careers I deeply admire? What could I offer to a conversation shaped by decades of experience, when I am still early in mine? And why would anyone want to hear from a non engineer working in a sector that has historically defined credibility so narrowly?
Alongside that doubt, however, was something else: pride. And a growing sense of responsibility. Because being visible in those moments forced me to reflect not just on my own journey, but on the conditions that made it possible – and the people who quietly shaped it along the way.
That reflection led me to one conclusion: progress on gender inclusion is real. But it has never been achieved by women alone. It has depended, and still depends, on allyship.